Introduction: Why wouldn't you want to sit in an empty restaurant?
Imagine that in the evening you go out on a street to eat. In search of a restaurant, two restaurants come in front of you. The first one is very lively and noisy; people are coming and going, and it is very crowded.
On the other hand, in front of the same restaurant, there is another restaurant that is not very crowded, just a few people. It looks deserted, but you don't know which of these two restaurants has better food, but still you will leave this empty restaurant and head towards the crowded restaurant.
Your heart forced you to think that it was crowded here, so it was better to go here. Why did your brain send signals to go to a crowded place? Why is that?
This is not strange. It is an old way of thinking in our brain. It is called "herd mentality." That is, when a lot of people are doing something, we try to do the same.
Although we think that we are very free as individuals, how can we be free if we imitate other people without thinking? In this article, we will learn why our brain does this.
why people follow the crowd
1. The one who walked with the most people would survive.
Following the crowd is not our weakness, but it is an old habit within us that we have inherited from our ancestors of old. Think, millions of years ago, if a person lived alone in the forest, a lion or a wolf would easily eat him. Living in tribes provided security. It was easier to find food.
So it has been ingrained in our minds that loneliness is a danger and that there is safety in a crowd. This is why even today we feel bad when we are separated from someone. Our brains give great importance to the opinions of others because in the old days, being expelled from the tribe was tantamount to death.
2. Mirror neurons: the machine for copying without being told
It's not just a matter of thought, but there are special cells in our brain (mirror neurons) that work in the same way when we do something and when we see someone else doing it. That is, if you are watching someone drink tea, the same parts of your brain light up as if you were drinking tea yourself.
This is very useful because it helps us learn quickly. A child watches and imitates. But it also has its drawbacks. Sometimes we start imitating before we even think. When a video goes viral, millions of people adopt the same dance or speech without thinking. All this is the beauty of mirror cells.
3. What people are doing seems right (social proof)
Psychologist Robert Cialdini made an interesting point. He says that we don't have time to think about everything. So we look at what others are doing, and we assume that this is the right way to go. This is called social proof.
For example, if there is a long line at a restaurant, we assume that the food must be good. The food may be average, but our brains, seeing the line, think that this is the best place.
Another surprising example is from a national park in Arizona, USA. People were stealing old wood there. The park officials put up a sign saying, "Please don't; 14 tons of wood are stolen every year." But after reading this sign, the theft increased because people thought, "If so many people are doing it, maybe it's not wrong." See, how powerful social proof is.
4. When like-minded people come together
When we sit down and talk with people like ourselves, our opinions become even more rigid. This is called group polarization. For example, if some people who are already in favor of driving faster argue with each other, they end up driving even faster.
This is why people on social media sit in groups of their own thinking and make each other more intense. Gradually, everyone starts thinking that their thinking is absolutely right and everyone else is wrong. The fact is that by being in a group, we often do not find a middle ground but rather run towards a corner.
5. The first person shows the way; everyone else follows.
Sometimes we see someone doing something, and we think they know something we don't. Then we start doing the same thing. And then the second, third, and fourth. And so an information cascade is created.
Look at online shopping. You see a product that says "best seller" or "top rated," and you buy it without thinking. You haven't checked for yourself whether it's really good or not. You just assume that because so many people have bought it, it must be good.
6. Why shouldn't I do it when everyone else is doing it? (Sharing responsibility)
When a lot of people do something together, each of us starts thinking, "It's not my fault, everyone is doing it." This is called the Diffusion of Responsibility.
For example, if everyone at a large rally is doing the same wrong thing, you might start doing it too because you think that no one will catch you if you are alone. This same thinking sometimes causes major accidents, such as a stock market crash or a stampede at a party. When we forget our individual responsibility, we blindly become part of the crowd.
7. Crowd thinking can also be used for good deeds
So far you've seen that following the crowd can often be harmful, but did you know that it can also be used for good? Research shows that people are more influenced by what their neighbors see, rather than by someone offering them money.
For example, in California, people were more likely to save energy when they were told that 77 percent of their neighbors used fewer fans. Similarly, in Spain, the “Som la Pera” campaign encouraged children to eat healthier, and they encouraged their friends to do the same. This proves that, if used correctly, crowd-sourcing can lead people to adopt good habits.
Conclusion: Learn to think for yourself.
Our brains have historically taught us that being in a crowd is safer and a sign of innovation.
This is not a defect; it is just an evolutionary habit. We don't realize that we are copying people without thinking.
And when we realize this, we will not imitate others without reason, nor will we run after the best-selling products.
But the next time you try to buy the hottest item or join a popular viral trend, be sure to ask yourself: Do I need to do this? Does it benefit me? Or am I just doing it because people are doing it?
So think a little differently from people, adopt a way of living according to your own will, and listen to your own mind.
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